It can be difficult to tell if someone you care about is drinking too much. As someone close to them, you may be better placed to recognise changes in their behaviour. But talking to others about your concerns isn’t always easy. Show
Spot the signsThe more we drink, the more we increase our tolerance for alcohol, and over time, this can lead to dependence. But it can be tricky to spot if someone is drinking in a way that could be harmful to their physical or mental health. Here are some signs to look out for:
What to say, and what not to sayTalking about alcohol can be difficult so approach it with sensitivity and empathy. Think about how you would feel if a friend or loved one started a conversation with you about your drinking. Choose a safe and comfortable place for the conversation, and use positive, supportive language. These phrases may help you:
Avoid criticism, making judgements and using labels such as "alcoholic". Try to keep questions open, such as, "I've noticed X, Y or Z, what do you think?" rather than "don't you think you have a problem?" Completing the Drinkaware Unit and Calorie Calculator together could be a good way to start a conversation about how much you both drink.
How to prepareChoosing your moment is vital. Make sure you're both in a calm mood. This isn’t the subject to talk about when you’re arguing. You need to be ready and willing to listen. The more you listen, the more someone will feel comfortable to open up. Be ready with as much information as possible so you can offer advice on how to get support if they ask you. Remember, while you can support someone through their journey, they have to want to change too. It might not be as straightforward as talking about your concerns and the person then changing their behaviours. Be patient. We also have more advice about the effect alcohol can have on your relationship.
; AcceptanceA person’s relationship with alcohol can be complex and tied to a number of emotions, like depression, social acceptance or coping. It’s not easy for a person to acknowledge, admit or accept that their drinking could be harmful to their health and their relationships. They may not want to, and they may not be ready. But acceptance is a big step in someone’s journey toward change. That’s why it’s important to be patient, keep your conversations open and avoid judgement. We have a great range of ideas for drink-free days that can help cut down drinking. Alcohol can contribute to feelings of depression and anxiety. Talk to someoneIf someone you care about is drinking too much and it’s having an impact on your relationship there is support available for you too. Drinkchat uses trained professionals from the national alcohol support service, Drinkline. You can speak to someone at Drinkchat between 9am-2pm on weekdays. If you can’t contact Drinkchat in those hours, or would prefer to talk to someone on the phone, you can call Drinkline on 0300 123 1110 (weekdays 9am–8pm, weekends 11am–4pm) and speak to a trained adviser. Chat with an advisor Alcohol support servicesIf you are concerned that you or someone you care about has a problem with alcohol there is a lot of help available. Here you can find useful links and phone numbers to get the support you need. Support services
Further advice and informationArming yourself with strategies and tips can help you or a loved one take small steps towards big results. Was this information helpful?Newsletter Tips to change your relationship with alcoholWhat are social problems?A social problem is any condition or behavior that has negative consequences for large numbers of people and that is generally recognized as a condition or behavior that needs to be addressed. This definition has both an objective component and a subjective component.
Which of the following concepts refers to the negative consequences of social patterns?Which of the following concepts refer to the negative consequences of social patterns. dysfunctions.
Which theoretical approach sees society as a system of many interrelated parts that operate together?Structural Functional Approach: this theoretical orientation views society as a complex interconnected system of parts that work together in harmony. “… This approach points to the importance of social structure, any relatively stable pattern of social behavior.
Which of the following concepts refers to a basic image of society that guides theory and research?Which of the following concepts refers to a basic image of society that guides theory and research? Theoretical approach.
|